worried

[rh]

I am not sure this is the right place to post this, but I thought I
might get a response. My wife has been going through some changes
lately. We have 3 kids and she has been feeling "hemmed in". She has
been going out with friends and staying out later than usual. It may be

her way of feeling like she has some freedom in her life and choices as

her own person, but it has caused some insecurity in me. That, along
with her distance. Most of what she tells me seems to add up, but not
100%. She came home the on Thursday evening at 7:45, work ends at 5,
after helping a girlfriend move a few things to her new house. She
changed all her clothes as soon as she got home and put some light
pants on without underwear. This may sound crazy, but later on I
checked her underwear she had on. There seemed to be about a 2" area
with some slightly dried "discharge". She has just finished her period
on Tuesday or Wednesday and there may have been a slight discoloration
in the area. I have not seen this same thing since. I don't want to
overreact when there could be a logical reason. We started seeing a
counselor on Friday and she acted and stated that she wants to try and
move forward. She told me Saturday that it felt good having a 2nd
chance at a relationship. Are there reasons to explain what I found?
Thanks for any feedback. We hae been together 12 years and married 7.

[unknown]

Most women have a discharge anytime of the month, my husband has never been
able to understand this when he finds it on my panties. Thats why they sell
panty liners guys. I don't know if she always gets changed after work.
Also I had three kids and I started feeling 'hemmed' in too, I also felt
that I was missing out on life, as a person. Not experiencing enough contact
and fun with adults, someone always wanting you to do something for them.
Don't get me wrong I and she probally does love being a mother/wife but we
need to be ourselves as well and you start to wonder where have I gone. Hope
that can help.

[rh]

Thanks Ryan

That opinion really helps to ease my feelings. I want to let her be her
own person and have some space, I think the one habit that has bothered
me is she doesn't call to let me know how late she'll be. She also
admitted this week that stopping by a local bar isn't necessarily the
best thing for a married person to do. No, she hasn't changed or taken
them off anymore after work, but maybe that was a bad day and they felt
uncomfortable to her. Thanks for the reply.

[rh]

One more thing Ryan. Can the female discharge dry and have the same
kind of slightly hard feeling that semen has?

[unknown]

yes